Why Dont Women Ask Males Out On Dates?

This article was basically talking about why women dont ask men out on first dates. Women typically tend to be more shy than men are and dont have the confidence men do to get asked out on dates. 

The article proceeds to explain that there are two kinds of ways to come about the situation. There are verbal an non verbal initiatives. Women are more prone to non verbal initiatives because they rather give signs than full out speaking to the man on how they feel. This dosent really make it a diffrence because today in society asking a women out on a date is just always the right thing to do and what society expects of the male human being to do. 

Do you think it is awkward for a women to ask you out males? and women do you think its awkward for you to ask a male out on a date? and why?

8 comments:

adinino said...

I think its not a bad thing to ask out a man if your a woman, but i think it is very awkward. I think this because guys usually have more self confidence than girls and guys seem to get over rejection easier than girls as well. Also, most girls want to be asked out by a guy because thats how it should be in society.

Rosalie Luciano said...

I feel like its awkward to ask men out because its not the norm to ask them out. it has always been, if both sexes are interested, then the male has to take the first intiative and ask the female out. for me i wouldnt ask a male out for the life of me just because it would be an awkward situation if the male doesnt say yes. thats probably why girls dont ask, because they dont want that feeling of rejection that boys often or sometimes get when they ask.

Rachael Thatcher said...

I feel that it depends on your personality. Some women are very confident and are going to be ok with asking a male out and not fear rejection, and some males are too afraid to and will not. I think its more common for males to ask out women, however it could work either way

Shai Hayes said...

I feel like each woman is different therefore, some women may feel akward asking a male on date however, some woman may feel most comfortable asking a male on a date. I believe, this decision to make a move on someone else depends on confidence and courage in both males and females. Some men are also too shy to approach a woman. It is more common for a male to approach a woman, however, a woman can ask a man out as well.

Emily Januszczyk said...

I understand how it could be awkward for a girl to ask a guy out, but if they have enough confidence to do so and don't care about the expected norms, then I don't see why it's a bad thing. A lot of people assume males to assert the dominant role and ask the girl out, but it doesn't have to be awkward if it's the other way around.

Olivia Klimek, per. 5 said...

I believe that although it may be awkward for some girls to ask guys out it may not be that awkward for another girl. It’s understandable that some girls may have more confidence in themselves than others but some girls just don’t want to ask a guy out because they might feel uncomfortable or might feel that someone will think their weird for it, personally I would just go for it.

Mike Nahmias said...

I think it's a little awkward for women to ask out males. This is only because in our society men are traditionally the ones to ask out women for some reason. I think it should be normal for either sex to ask out the other.

KRucci said...

I don't think it's awkward for women to ask out men. I think both genders should ask out whoever they want to without feeling awkward by societies tradition.