Summary: This article was about the little problems in relationships that eventually buildup, which may result to a couple’s downfall. Even though couples may face big problems such as infidelity, abuse, and addiction, it is said that the smaller problems (such as the little annoying habits your partner has) are the things that really make you tick, and can hurt your relationship the most.
Do you think relationships fail due to one big problem, or smaller problems that build up over time until they’ve reached their breaking point, causing a reaction? If you were in such a position, what would you do to fix your relationship?
16 comments:
I think that relationships fail because of all the little problems building up until you find a breaking point and you just have to ends it. I wouldn't just keep pushing off the small issues i would talk to them about every problem i have to get it out in the air and not have it bothering me until i have to break up with them.
Rachel Pac
i believe that relationships fail because of smaller things and big things. Obviously if someone in the relationship does something then its gonna put a strain on the relationship. If they continue to do little things then it just makes the matters worse. I just believe that if the relationship is meant to last one there wouldn't be any big problems and the tinny little mean nothing problems wouldn't affect the relationship. It all depends on what battles you want to fight in a relationship and what ones you can yield.
I think that a relationship comes to an end if really little problems buildup and then a bigger problem comes along and becomes the breaking point. Every little thing left unsolved makes the tension a little worse and like Carlee said, strains the relationship. I would want to talk about the problems I have with someone to clear things up so we can continue on without having to worry about them.
I believe that relationships fail due to smaller problems that build up over time. One big problem is usually fixable. But smaller problems usually build up to those big problems that end up breaking the relationship.
I believe that each relationship and breakup is different. Some relationships end with a big fight while some will end as smaller problems build up. However, I do think that the latter is more common than the former. If there are outstanding small problems with the relatiosnhip that aren't discussed, it is likely that they can all come to a head.
I believe both big and small problems could affect a relationship equally. For example the small things may not be a problem at the beggining of the relationship or at the moment it happened but it keeps building up and everytime you get into a small argument with your partner they will bring all these small things up so it becomes a big thing, so it may not be big at the moment but it has the same impact. I will really like to know if theirs a way to prevent this little arguements but in realitity i believe you can not stop this little arguments because you and your partner msy never agree with the same stuff that's when the arguments start to build i belive you could probably prevent it for a while, but relationships are not always 100% perfect.
I do think that relationships fail due to a build up of a lot of little problems,but at the same token many realtionships due fail to the big problems of cheating and lying.If that doenst happen then, then yes they do fail to litlle problems because if there is something little bothering you about someone and it goes unsaid, then it will bother you more and more till you cant take it anymore.I think a way to fix these things is to talk withy your partner and tell them how you are feeling and work out your problems together.
I think that besides the big problems like lying and cheating, failed relationships can usually be because of multiple little things that add up into something big. Some of these little things could be annoying habits or stubborn opinions on something that really isn't or shouldn't be that detrimental. These little things can eventually make or break a relationship.
I think that small problems that build up will make relationships end unless the big problems are something very serious like cheating. If it is just one problem that’s not very serious then couples usually over come it. If it’s a bunch of small problems that annoys one partner, that has a better chance of ending the relationship.
I think that a relationship may fail due to many small problems, that collect into one large problem. A person in a relationship may overlook many small problems at first, but as more and more problems appear, they may all be compounded into one big problem. This one large problem can be the breaking point, and cause the relationship to end.
I think that relationships fail because of both big things and small things that build up into a big thing. Even though people usually overlook the small problems eventually those small problems happen more and more and build up to a big problem which could end a relationship. So therefore i guess you can say its really just a big problem that can lead to a problem in a relationship because those small problems turn to big making them the same thing.
I think that ultimately relationships crumble due to both larger and smaller issues. Each relationship is different, because each person involved is different. However, if there are problems they can be fixed, it's just a matter of time, patience, and actually wanting to fix them. I believe that small problems can lead to bigger problems, or that due to larger problems in the past smaller issues will be more detrimental. For example if someone cheated on you and you take them back. If they are talking to people of the opposite sex and hanging out with them, it will be much harder to trust them and thus, a smaller issue can get blown out of proportion or turn into a larger problem.
This depends on the small problems. What small problems are occuring? Sometimes, I do believe that little things that might annoy you, could possibly at the end turning into a huge fight. Although the smaller problems are usually the annoying ones, big problems like cheating, are the ones that really mess things up. That breaks trust in a relationship, and if you don't have trust, you don't have anything.
I think that it is both big and small problems that result in a downfall of a relationship. In all people there are always negatives and when you are in a relationship with someone those negatives are more obvious and harder to understand. I believe that small things could build up to end a relationship. Mostly, i believe that small things build up to cause a larger problem which could end a relationship. If i were in such a position, I would talk to the person that I am bothered with to try to figure out a way to avoid ending the relationship.
I think that big problems can ruin a relationship at anytime, depending on the seriousness of the problem. But I think that over time the true culprits are the little problems. This is because over time alot of couples get sick of dealing with each other, and they just start picking out everything about each other until they are fed up and eventually split. If I were in a relationship like this, I would try to be as honest as possible so we wouldn't get angry and split.
I believe that one big problem can ultimately ruin a relationship as well as little annoyances, it all depends on the people involved and what they let affect them or not. I truly feel that all smaller problems that go on without being fixed lead to something bigger which will result in the end of the relationship. If I was in this position I would do my best to resolve all that is possible to resolve. There are times in a relationship when there is already too much damage to even try to fix it. At that point, you have to cherish all that you have and/or had with that person.
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